1. Talk Less
There are people who talk more than their mouth can handle. If they are competent in the subject, that will not be a problem. But, if they only talk and talk without any important substance in their conversation that will be not useful for the person whom talk to them that’s not good at all.
If we some how find this kind of person, we dislike him or her. And, that goes the other way exactly. People tend to dislike this kind of attitude in a person. So the best way to overcome it is to talk less, unless what we talk about is going to have some kind of profit to other, such as delivering knowledge etc.
2. Not to monopolize conversations
There are people that talk much, but still give their communicant a space to talk too. And, there are people that talk much, and do not give even a slightest time for their communicant to reply. It’s almost like they perform a monologue, if you know what i mean.
Not to monopolize conversations is a nice attitude. Remember! A conversation involve more than one person. Not just us. Not just me or you.
3. Avoid to pride ourselves
Some people always talk about their selves, mentioning their good deeds, to compliment their actions, and to be pride about all the goodness, and favor they do.
Also, they always talk about their amazement to their talk, work, writings, and other personalities. And, they always tell people about how great their wives, how good those wives in arranging their house etc.
Please, tell me if you like these kind of person. You don’t, rite? So do people if we perform this kind of act.
4. Pay attention for the cause of our talking
Our subjects in talking must have cause something later on. It can be good, but it can be bad for ourselves too. So it is necessary to pay attention on that in our conversation and gathering events. To choose our words carefully.
5. To watch carefully about someone Else’s feeling
God created human with feelings. And sometimes there are people that have no attention about human feelings. They talk as if everybody are stones or walls.
A noble teacher ones advised this kind of person and told his student that “to have conversation with someone that has that kind of attitude was like having forth day of fever!”.