Here are the five simple tips on “How to Find Mr. Right?”…
1. Do not find him, let him find you.
Remember that you are God’s princess and that your heart should be so hidden in your Father’s hand so that Mr. Right will ask for it from your Father first. And I’m pretty sure that your perfect heavenly Father knows who’s the Mr. Right for you. He will not give your heart to someone who never afford to ask for it. (Matthew 7:7 Ask and it will be given to you…”)
2. Be the Ms. Right first.
God has perfect timing for His plans for you (Ecclesiastes 3:1 There is a time for everything…). And He will not send you anything if you are not yet ready to receive it. In the same way, He will not send Mr. Right to you if you are not Ms. Right yet. Remember, in the beginning, God did not wake up Adam when He (God) was STILL ON THE PROCESS of creating Eve , He only woke up Adam when He (God) was ALREADY FINISHED creating Eve. So be willing to be changed and mold by God first because when He knows when you are ready to meet your Mr. Right (Genesis 2:21-22).
3. Keep in mind that Mr. Right is not there to make you complete (Only Jesus can do that).
To be fair, you are also not made to complete your Mr. Right. Remember that you are complete in the sight of God if you have Jesus because He’s the only one who can fill that emptiness in you. Apart from Jesus, we are nothing (John 15:5). God created woman to be a helper of man (Genesis 2:18), therefore we are made not to complete each other but to help one another in this journey called life.
4. Do not be so desperate for Mr. Right.
If you become so desperate to have your Mr. Right, you might take the first person who comes along. Be patient because that’s one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit that God wants to develop in you (Galatians 2:22).
5. Seek God first. (THE MOST IMPORTANT AMONG ALL THE TIPS)
This is the most important tip. I really don’t know how to explain this part because I don’t want you to rely on my explanation in seeking God anyway. I want you to experience it. I will now be out of the picture from here… seek God first, and find it for yourself on how He will send you your Mr. Right (Matthew 6:33) .
Thank you for taking time reading this and God bless you with a “Mr. Right.” To God be the glory.
good suggestions
Thanks girishpuri. God bless u.
Great guidelines. I followed them too and am very blessed wife for the past 12 years of a godly loving husband. God knows who is just right for each one of us. If we trust Him, He will be the one to join you together. I loved especially the point #3. It is very true, our happiness comes from God. If we are not happy single, we will not be happy married. We must be healthy and whole in order to have a healthy and happy marriage.
This share has been a tremendous blessing to me personally. I have made my share of mistakes over-the-years by going it alone to try to find my Ms. Right and have not found her, only to get myself in deep water in other areas of my life. God is the answer to all of our problems and God is the person whom can bring the right people or person into our lives not only in a married way, but also in a fellowship way.
Truthfully, I have had many struggles throughout my life which God has needed to straighten out in me first, before I could or can be the Mr. Right for that Ms. Right. Since I am still not married nor do I date, God only knows what other areas of my life that He still is working on, so that when the time is right (God’s time is right) for me to meet my Ms. Right, then our relationship will be filled with love for God and to one another and lust will not have any space whatsoever in the relationship. What God brings together can no man put asunder.
For me, I have believed that the moment that God brings my Ms. Right in my life will be the day which I will know that she is the one that I will marry, so dating around many women is not my thing at all. I did that sort of thing (not too much, but I did date around) before I really knew my Lord Jesus Christ and when I was dating around I was never ever really happy; now I know why, it was because I was trusting in my own self to find that Ms. Right and I was not leaning and trusting in the Lord. I have changed…Now, I trust in the Lord God to make this happen, if it is His Will for my life and if it isn’t then I am quite content to follow Jesus wherever he go and answer to his call whenever he calls upon me to do the Will of His Father and His (Jesus’) Will in this world.
I feel very blessed to have been given the opportunity to get to know you Rovie, even tho there are thousands of miles of earth between the two of us…the Goodness of our Lord Jesus Christ has brought our Spirits together for I am lead to believe is to minister the Word of God and to share the testimony that we carry within ourselves to the rest of the world. And, to support one another in this righteous mission commissioned by our Heavenly Father and his only begotten Son Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior.
I am so blessed to have been given the opportunity to have met you and Edyta, Karen Gross, Pete M., Nobert, Dutton and many other brothers and sisters in Christ through Triond and from around the world. The friendships which God has brought together in my life are most treasured in my heart and true friendships abound in love, peace, joy, happiness and stand the test of time and will thrive for all eternity. Our Lord Jesus Christ did say that we are friends among many other offices which our Good Lord holds – it is good to know that we have a friend in Jesus.
A new “The Dividing Line” topic just came to mind regarding this very topic. I will need to record it and publish it in the near future. I need to pray about it and mediate on the Word of God first before I record what God teaches me on the subject.
May God Bless this day with the fullness of His Love toward us and the many readers which may be reading this and opening their hearts to the Lord Jesus Christ and our Heavenly Father’s love towards them.
Your brother in Christ,
Nelson Doyle
Do not find him, let him find you.
so very true.Thanks for the nice info
Very interesting.
Correction for my point no. 4 the verse should be Galatians 5:22 , and not Galatians 2:22. God bless. Thanks for all of your comments. I appreciate every comment. God bless u.
You are obsolutely right here Rovie, if you do not make Jesus the third party in your marriage, chances are that the marriage will not last because even the Mr. right you thought you got will transform to a horrible Mr. wrong!
this is very good.. being a christian I value these words you write because I know they are correct..
I am sharing on Facebook on my prayer page,
I am Deborah Brooks Langford
Tip number 5!My first step to find my mr. right!:))))yeah!i will and forever i will
Thanks for this rovie 
Sure Deborah. God bless u more. thanks lhen
well written – thank you
I am so glad I found my Mrs Right, happily married for 8 years and I love her more every day. Very well written post, thanks.
@stable.I’m glad you found your Mrs. Right.
Bestwishes,
Rovie
Very good work succes