Published by Many people wonder how marriages of different religions work. What are they going to teach their kids? How will they practice their own faiths? There are so many questions that need to be answered. Where will you find the answers?
The answer lies between you two. Don’t give in to family and friend pressures. You and your partner should convey your own opinions to each other. Make sure you talk to each other and fully understand each other about everything (and be honest!). I know for some people it’s very difficult because of family issues such as having strict parents. However, if this person truly makes you happy, then it will turn out okay. Parents only wish the best for their children. That’s why they’re worried in the first place.
The same goes for in-laws. Show them that you care about your partner and you’re not marrying them for some other reason. They’ll realize as well that you two are meant for each other.
Parents want to know that you have thought out your future plans. Which religion will dominate? If one person is willing to compromise, then so be it. Otherwise, find a healthy medium. You can go to each others rituals, it won’t mean you have any less of your faith. Teach children both religions. It won’t do any harm. Your kids will be well experienced and knowledgeable. They’ll also be more likely to be tolerant of other religions.
Don’t fight with your kids over which religion to choose. They shouldn’t be receiving any outside influence either. Children will come to you if they need help. They don’t need badmouthing of other religions. Let them choose what makes them happy. This may be contrary to what your parents want, but you should be able to handle your own decisions when it comes to your own kids.
It may seem like an uphill battle for some, but if you truly love someone then there will be no obstacles in your way. I believe if someone has found spirituality, that’s all they need in life regardless of what specific traditions they practice. Make sure you and your partner have talked about everything. Don’t just assume everything will fall into place. Be prepared: marriage is already tough on its own!
