Christians believe they are good at “forgive and forget” doctrine, but the reality proven once again with Mel Gibson is, we’re not. We’re even worse when it comes to giving a person a second chance. Doesn’t this go against the Lord’s statement in Matthew 18:21-22 about how many times we should forgive? Why do Christians refuse to forgive others who have haven’t wronged them? Finally, what can children teach us about this subject.